For my single Ladies & Gents.

You know I didn't think it was possible; but life has a great sense of humor.

1.Have you ever questioned and wondered why you are single?
2.Wondered why everyone else is lucky with getting involved so quickly?

and the ultimate questions

3. Whats wrong with me? OR
4. Why not me?

Okay, there is nothing wrong with you.  If you love yourself, have friends, go out, enjoy life and the good stuff, then there is nothing wrong with you.  You just haven't found the right one and the doesn't happen so quick either.  It takes time, and during the process, you're going to find more than a few duds.  It's all good. This experience is necessary to really see what are your true deal makers that will not be tolerated. Sometimes we think we have all the answers and we really don't.  I laugh because now that I am 42 and have lived on my own, taking care of me and learning more about myself ~ in the process I learn more about what I won't tolerate, the deal breakers and the compromises.

Now, if you are having some issues with yourself, then they need to be addresses asap.  Yes, like yesterday.  How can you even consider being with someone if you don't love yourself?  When you love yourself, everything else falls into place.  Getting to know yourself intimately the ins and outs is important because who can know you better than yourself.  A relationship shouldn't define who you are.  You define who you are.  Everything about you defines who you are.

What do you like to do and don't like to do?
Is there something you would like to experience but haven't dared tried? Well time to ask a friend to come along for the ride.  Is there a book that you've wanted to read but are to scared to read it because you are worried about what your friends and family will think?  Why worry about them.. They are living their lives and doing what pleases them to make them happy ~ So why aren't you making yourself happy by reading or doing what pleases you? I am just saying that when you worry about what others think, you are missing out on so much that life has to offer.

Think about it.  Life is too short not to be lived and experienced.  It is never too late for anything.  Look at me, I am a self-taught makeup artist.  Ladies are asking me to teach them what I have learned and that is a big accomplishment.  Plus, I do know how to knit a pair of socks and a baby sweater too.

Take on a hobby, visit your local bookstore and take a day trip by yourself.  Get to know the real you.